“Parents are a child’s first and most important teacher. By being involved in their child’s education, parents can help set their child up for success.”

-Unknown

October 19, 2001, is a date that, for many, may have been just another ordinary day. For me, it marks the day my life changed forever—the day I became a father. Next to my wedding day, it remains one of the most profound and memorable moments of my life. Holding my daughter, Alexis, for the very first time filled me with a sense of joy and love so overwhelming it felt like a waterfall cascading over me in a tropical paradise—a complete state of bliss. In that moment, I knew without hesitation that there was nothing I would not do for her. I promised myself I would be there in her moments of need and do everything within my power to protect her from suffering or pain. I hope that you have had, or will one day have, the opportunity to experience a moment like this, because there truly is nothing else like it.

Being a parent is a 24/7, 365-day calling. I use the word calling intentionally, because parenting—much like a chosen career path—is far more than a job. It is a responsibility, a privilege, and a gift entrusted to us. Once you become a parent, there is no such thing as being “off the clock,” no matter how old your children become. From their first cry, to their first scraped knee, to their first heartbreak, they depend on us for guidance, reassurance, and strength. Our children are, and should be, our whole world. They are our legacy.

As parents and caregivers, we are our children’s first advocates in countless situations, and this role becomes especially critical when it comes to their education. There is no greater responsibility—and few greater rewards—than watching your child cross the stage to receive their high school diploma. On that day, pride is on full display—not only for parents, but for everyone who played a part in shaping that child’s journey.

In today’s ever-changing world, the role of caregiver has expanded beyond traditional definitions of family. For many children, that role is filled by grandparents, aunts, uncles, foster parents, or other devoted adults who step in when they are needed most. If this describes you, I wholeheartedly applaud your commitment and willingness to support a child during such a pivotal time in their life. Throughout this chapter, I refer frequently to parents, but please know that this term includes anyone who is lovingly and responsibly caring for a child.

You play a vital role in your child’s education. Your involvement, advocacy, and voice matter. The purpose of these entries is to remind you of just how important you are—and to affirm that you have a permanent seat at your child’s educational table.